Be the chooser not the chaser

I taught this mastermind to a private group of amazing women over 8 weeks and now I'm making that same mastermind available to the public.

In each bundle (7 total) we cover a new topic that I have seen women misunderstand again and again when it comes to men and dating. I am giving you every bit of information from my years or coaching, personal experience, and everything my own teachers taught me in this mastermind.

If you've ever taken another course by me you know that I do not teach fluff.
 I pour everything I can into my courses and this one is no different. I spent over 5 months writing this course. My heart is truly in it because I want it to truly impact the women who put their trust in me and participate.

WHAT'S INCLUDED : 
Each bundle includes

  •  The pre-recorded 3+ hour zoom call of my teaching on each topic and Q and A's from participants during that class.

  • The workbook for that week. Each workbook explores more about that weeks topic in depth or unearths different angels we didn't have time to explore in class. Each workbook averages 12-20 pages and includes journal prompts to help integrate that weeks information.

  • A pdf of all of the slides we use during class discussion.

  • A 1+ hour Q +A  audio recording of me answering participants detailed personal questions after each class.

HOW IT WORKS : 
You can purchase bundles in whatever order you like. Find the bundle that seems the most helpful to you.

But my suggestion is to start with bundle 2 and go from there, in consecutive order.
I designed this mastermind to build on itself.
Each bundle absolutely works as stand alone content, but there will be things we refer to that you may be unfamiliar with from previous weeks if you choose to jump around between weeks.

It's important to me to keep the participants of these videos anonymous. Videos are edited so you cannot see the faces of the participants.

**AFTER PURCHASE YOU WILL RECEIVE AN EMAIL WITH YOUR DOWNLOAD  LINK**

BE THE CHOOSER NOT THE CHASER  mastermind course is for women who want to learn exactly what they need to know to start feeling powerful, authentic, and worthy while they date to find the man of their dreams.

I spent years feeling like something was wrong with me (from 17 years old til my late 30's). Men never picked me.
I chased them emotionally and energetically. I didn't even know what that meant back then and I was blind to the extent I was sabotaging myself. The more I chased men the more they ran or stuck around but became emotionally unavailable to me.

My love life made me constantly feel like I must not be good enough somehow. What was so wrong with me? Why couldn't I get this right?

Eventually one man did choose me. And because that rarely ever happened I jumped at the chance to be chosen. But the truth  was that I wanted my relationship with this man to save me from the pain I was so use to experiencing and save me from my feelings of unworthiness.

Not surprisingly that marriage was an unhappy mess from start to finish.
And it ended, of course it did! And now with 8 years of emotional baggage from that relationship and more confusion and disillusionment about love, I was thrown right back into the dating pool and right back into all the old ways I use to feel with men ; unseen, unwanted, and defeated.

But this time I was going to do it differently. I committed to learning about what I couldn't see before. I was determined to change my love life. And over 10 years I slowly and painstakingly learned what I hadn't understood or been able to see. 
And finally things started to change. I was attracting good men instead of emotionally avoidant or unavailable men. I was attracting masculine men, instead of men who wanted me to be in charge or mommy them. And I was finally feeling my worth and seeing it reflected back to me in the treatment and respect I recieved from the men I dated.

I want to teach you everything that  I learned over those 10 years about dating, men, and how to become the chooser, not the chaser.  

MASTERMIND DETAILS

WEEK 1 is not included in this course. WEEK 1 incorporated introductions and sharing each participants story for the women enrolled in the course. That information will be kept private out of respect for the participants. 
There was no teaching content in WEEK 1. 
WEEK 2 is the start of teaching content.

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This was absolutely one of the best things I have ever done for myself. I have been exploring personal development, healing and inner work for years and this is by far the most accessible, practical, fun, and transformational work I have come across. I was initially unsure about taking this course because I thought I knew everything about feminine-masculine dynamics but wow belle really ended up blowing my mind.

Taking this course has not only drastically improved my confidence and self worth in my romantic life, but I feel more grounded as a person and connected to my heart. I feel like I have so many tools and so much wisdom to bring into all the areas of my life now. This is a life course disguised as a dating course! I've never felt as much confidence and hope that I can meet my person as I do now.

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THE SCIENCE OF FALLING IN LOVE AND WHY IT IS SO CRUCIAL TO UNDERSTAND AND APPLY WHILE YOU DATE.
QUESTIONS INCLUDED WITH THIS WEEKS Q + A RECORDING : How  can you differentiate between an expectation vs a need with men? How can I get more comfortable  with  not paying on dates? Is a man giving up sex for lent him pulling away from me? How long should I keep talking to men on apps before they ask me out on a date? How will I know if it's the right man for me? And more.

UNDERSTANDING MEN  AND THE CORRECT PROCESS FOR VETTING MEN TO FIND THE RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR DREAMS.
QUESTIONS INCLUDED IN THIS WEEKS Q + A RECORDING : What does a healthy progression of texting look like? How can I accept Real World Investment from men without feeling bad about it? How can a woman ask for help from men without looking like a victim or being manipulative? How can I navigate dating men who don't live in my city? And more.

TEXTING WEEK : TAKING APART REAL LIFE EXAMPLES, TEACHING YOU WHAT TO LOOK FOR, WHAT TO SAY AND NOT TO SAY AND MORE.
QUESTIONS INCLUDED IN THIS WEEKS Q + A RECORDING : 

FEMININE COMMUNICATION WEEK. WHAT IT IS,  HOW TO USE IT, AND WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH MASCULINE  PARTNERS

Does feminine communication encourage an unhealthy dominant/submissive dynamic? How can I ask men questions in a more feminine way? How can you balance feminine communication with intellectual exchanges? What is the difference between saying "You made me feel..." vs  "I feel..."? How do I shift into feminine energy after being in a masculine job? And more.

GETTING CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT BEFORE YOU DATE, DISCOVERING WHAT YOUR NEEDS ARE WITH MEN,  DEFINING WHAT REALLY MATTERS TO YOU, AND IDENTIFYING YOUR BIGGEST LOVE BLOCKS.
QUESTIONS INCLUDED IN THIS WEEKS Q + A RECORDING : Can I still date this emotionally unavailable man while I wait for the right one? How can I start connecting with my feelings? What are women's biggest blindspots with men? What is the difference between being a chooser in dating vs. relationships? And more.

Are high value men really on dating apps? How can I keep 1st dates short? How do I make sure I choose a man who is monogamous?  What do you do if you've had sex too soon and want to go back to no sex? Can a woman effect how a man shows up? And more.

This was so much more than I ever imagined it could be. It was truly a beautiful course. I am new to dating after a 17 year marriage ending and men are loving my profile, my energy, and our dates. Taking this has given me a completely different dating experience and given me a such a massive confidence boost about being capable of finding my partner.

Ok this course blew my mind. I've taken a lot of masterminds but this one was the most thorough, deep, and challenging one I have taken before. I almost didn't enroll in this but I cannot tell you how grateful I am that I did.

I feel confident for the first time in my life about dating and finding my future husband it is 100% because of Belle and this course.

Oh dear lord I am not sure I have the words for this course. I have received such permission to want the things my tender heart wants deeply with men. My outlook on sexuality with men has completely changed. I have started to really FEEL my worth. I have been so craving a reframe on dating and relationships but didn't know how to do that, but this course gave me a total 180.

It took the entire course for the message to land but boy did it land! Dating has become an exploration of myself and men that is actually fun for me and it's given me real structured framework to work on myself while I date.

ALL THE PRACTICAL, LOGICAL, AND STRAIGHTFORWARD INFORMATION NO ONE TAUGHT YOU ABOUT HOW TO DATE CORRECTLY, UNDERSTANDING HOW TO NAVIGATE THE DIFFERENT STAGES OF DATING AND SEX.
QUESTIONS INCLUDED IN THIS WEEKS Q + A RECORDING : How do I know which needs are my job to meet vs which ones are my partners job to meet? Does satisfying our core needs through other things negate our need for an intimate relationship? How does emotional healing actually happen? What do I do when a man wants to be exclusive after just a few dates? And more

THE BOUNDARY TOOLS YOU NEED TO BE USING TO NAVIGATE DATING AND HAVE SUCCESS WITH MEN. EXPLORATION OF WHAT THEY ARE AND HOW TO APPLY THEM 
QUESTIONS INCLUDED IN THIS WEEKS Q + A  RECORDING : How was I so blind to my emotional needs in my previous marriage? What if I want to "need" something with a  man but it makes me uncomfortable?  What is the line between overcaring/overgiving with a man vs. being in your feminine with him? If I attract emotionally unavailable partners how does that mean I am emotionally unavailable? And more

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